77 Interesting Facts About Weddings

77 Interesting Facts About Weddings

1. In the United States, there is no law or religious dictate that says the bride must take the groom’s last name. However, approximately 70% of Americans agree that a bride should change her last name.
2. The Fijians believe that the god Nangganangga, who watches over married couples, will not let a bachelor enter Fijian paradise and will turn him to ash if he dies before he is married.
3. The Penan nomads who live on the island Borneo (southwest of the Philippines) maintain that women do not have a soul until their wedding day.
4. In States where no blood tests or physical exams are required, failing to tell your prospective spouse that you have a venereal disease or a physical impairment (such as impotence or infertility) can void the marriage.
5. Early Roman brides carried a bunch of herbs, such as garlic and rosemary, under their veils to symbolize fidelity and fertility and to ward off evil. These herbs served as a precursor to the modern bridal bouquet.
6. The phrase “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe” symbolizes continuity, optimism for the future, borrowed happiness, fidelity, and wealth or good luck, respectively.
7. Because white is the color of mourning in Eastern cultures, white wedding dresses are uncommon.
8. Las Vegas is the top wedding destination with over 100,000 weddings a year, followed by Hawaii at 25,000 weddings a year.
9. The tradition of the “ring finger” is based on an erroneous historical belief in a “vein of love”
   Wedding rings are often placed on the third finger of the left hand because ancient Egyptians believed the vein in that hand (which the Romans called the “vein of love”) ran directly to the heart.
10. The bride’s veil traditionally symbolized her youth and virginity. Veils also hid the bride from jealous spirits or the Evil Eye. In the past, veils could be red, blue or yellow (the color of Hymen, the Greek god of marriage). The modern white veil became popular during the Victorian era as a symbol of purity and modesty. A white veil also connoted that a bride was wealthy enough to wear white.
11. In many cultures, the groom historically often kidnapped the bride, and the groom’s friends would help him, leading to the modern-day groomsmen. At the alter, the groom always stood on the bride’s right side so his right hand—or his sword hand—would be free to fight/defend a jealous rival.
12. Flower girls traditionally threw flower petals in the bride’s path to lead her to a sweet, plentiful future.
13. Nearly all cultures have showered the wedding couple with symbolic food. For example, the French throw wheat, Sicilians throw wheat bread and salt, and the English throw pieces of cake. Early Romans or Greeks threw nuts, dates, and seed-bearing plants. Bulgarians have thrown figs.
14. Throwing rice at weddings symbolizes fertility, prosperity, and bounty. In some countries, the bride might even carry or wear sheaves of grain. However, many modern churches and wedding locations discourage rice throwing because rice can be fatal for birds who eat it.
15. Guests in ancient times would tear off part of the bride’s gown as tokens of good luck, leading to the tradition of the bride throwing both her garter and her bouquet.
16. A wedding cake is traditionally a symbol of good luck and fertility and has been a part of wedding celebrations since Roman times, when a small bun, symbolizing fertility, was broken above the bride’s head at the close of the ceremony. During the Middle Ages, custom required the bride and groom to kiss over small cakes.
17. The phrase “tying the knot” initially came from an ancient Babylonian custom in which threads from the clothes of both the bride and bridegroom were tied in a knot to symbolize the couple’s union. Literally tying some type of ceremonial knot at a wedding ceremony can be found across cultures.
18. In some African ceremonies, it was a sentiment of well wishing to greet the new bride with the words: “May you bear 12 children with him.”
19. A bride is traditionally carried over the threshold either to symbolize her reluctance to leave her father’s home or because evil spirits hovered over the threshold of a house—so she was lifted over the entrance to protect her from the spirits.
20. Pope Innocent III’s creation of an “engagement” period led to separate engagement and wedding rings
    Pope Innocent III (1160/1-1216) declared that a waiting period should be observed between betrothal and marriage, which led to separate engagement and wedding rings. The first recorded account of a diamond engagement ring was in 1477 when King Maximilian I of Germany (1459-1519) proposed to Mary of Burgundy (1457-1482) and offered her a diamond to seal his vow.
21. During Biblical times, shoes were seen as a badge of authority because they lifted a person off the ground, differentiating them from barefoot slaves and serfs. They were used to seal a bargain and fathers would give his son-in-law a pair on the wedding day as symbol of transferring authority.
22. In Great Britain, it was considered good luck for the bride to kiss a chimney sweep on her wedding day. He supposedly had special powers, and when he cleans the chimney, he also sweeps away evil spirits.
23. A morganatic marriage is a union of a person of royal blood with one of inferior rank. Such a marriage is called a “left-hand marriage” because at the wedding ceremony, the husband holds the bride’s hand with his right hand with his left hand. Though these marriages are recognized by the church, the father cannot confer on their children his rank or property.
24. In Afghanistan, a man who wanted to marry a woman would cut off a lock of her hair or throw a sheet over her and proclaim her his bride.
25. The Ozark people located in central America believed placing the dried tongue of a turtle dove in a loved one’s house would persuade him or her to marry.
26. Bedouin girls will often begin to sew their wedding dresses when they turn nine years old and so that they will finish their gown before they marry at the age of fourteen or fifteen.
27. All over the world, there is a long tradition of mock battles to keep the groom away from the bride on their wedding day. For example, in Thailand, a groom often will find the entrance of the bride’s house roped off until he offers money to get through. In some nomadic tribes in Central Asia, a groom and his party would pursue his bride on horseback—as she was riding away carrying a newly slaughtered lamb.
28. Puritans banned wedding rings because they thought they were “frivolous” jewelry or relics of Popery.
29. In many countries, a yellow wedding dress has traditionally been seen as a sign of a wife’s intention to cheat on her husband or of jealousy.
30. The act of the bride and groom sharing symbolic wedding cake goes back to ancient times
    Much like the modern tradition of feeding wedding cake to one’s spouse, in ancient Rome, couples pledged their unity by sharing food. Today a Japanese bride and groom drink sake together, Jewish couples drink from the same cup of consecrated wine, and Muslim couples eat from the same piece of candy.
31. Greek brides believed that tucking a lump of sugar into the wedding gown would bring sweetness throughout married life.
32. To ensure fertility, the Irish would take a hen that was about to lay an egg and tie it to the wedding bed.
33. Because ducks mate for life, a Korean groom will ask a happily married friend to make him two small wooden ducks for his new household.
34. Oriental wedding dresses often display embroidered cranes, which are symbols of life-long fidelity. At Japanese weddings, the presence of 1001 white paper origami cranes is considered good luck.
35. In Egypt, women will pinch the bride to bring good luck to those who pinched her.
36. In India, it is considered a form of protection and luck to be symbolically married to a tree.
37. In present-day Saudi Arabia, Iran, and Pakistan, a girl who loses her virginity before marriage may be punished or murdered along with her lover by the males of her own family.
38. Some tribes in central Asia held that a bride’s hymen should be broken not by her husband, but by her maternal grandfather. If he was not willing or alive, a cousin from her mother’s side was responsible to perform the task.
39. Eskimos would bring their brides to a priest for divine unflowering.
40. In Europe during the Middle Ages, the lord of the manor had a legal right to spend the first night with any non-noble bride on his land (“le droit du seigneur” or “right of the lord”).
41. The average number of wedding guests is 175
    An average wedding in the United States has 175 guests.
42. After a Jewish wedding, the groom stomps on a glass which is wrapped in a cloth while people clap and shout congratulations (“Mazel tov!”). The broken glass symbolizes the frailty of human happiness or perhaps the destruction of the Israelite temple in A.D. 70. Some Jewish husbands argue that it means they will have the authority in the house or that shattered glass symbolizes the easing of sexual penetration on the first night of marriage.
43. In Jewish weddings, if the bride is the last marriageable daughter in her family, her mother is crowned with a wreath of leaves (a krenzel) and family and friends dance around her.
44. In Siberia, it is believed that it is a sin to remain single and that the soul of a bachelor becomes a dzheretinnik (heretic) that remains on the earth to scare the living.
45. In Ethiopia, women from certain tribes place plates in their lower lip in order to entice a rich groom. The larger the protruding lip, the more a groom will pay.
46. In many societies, families save money to cover wedding expenses the same way Americans save money to cover a child’s college education. Many parents start saving money as soon as a daughter is born.
47. In many Muslim countries and parts of Greece, the groom is expected to show the virginal blood on the sheets the morning after the wedding. The couple’s family is waiting outside to ensure the bride was a virgin and the husband was virile.
48. Some scholars claim the word “honeymoon” comes from the Teutonic custom when newlyweds would hide out and drink hydromel (a fermented honey and water mixture) for 30 days until the moon waned.
49. Green is typically not worn at Scottish weddings because it is the color of fairies and an omen of revenge. It is considered unlucky to even eat green vegetables at a wedding.
50. The busiest wedding days in the United States, in order of popularity, are Saturday afternoon, Saturday morning, Friday evening, and Sunday afternoon. A late afternoon or early evening wedding is generally more expensive than an earlier wedding.
51. In the U.S., Fireman’s Fund Insurance Company offers wedding insurance, which can cover any retaking of photographs, wedding attire or wedding gift replacements, and public liability.
52. More than 40% of couples now plan their weddings together, and three out of four grooms help select items for their wedding gift registries.
53. Seventy-five percent of engaged couples in the United States pay for some or all of their own wedding.
54. In Mediterranean countries, Jordan almonds are given to guests at a wedding to represent the bitter and the sweet sides of marriage.
55. The top 10 “First Dance” songs in the U.S. include “The Way You Look Tonight,” “Just the Way You Are,” “Come Away with Me,” Unforgettable,” “Wonderful Tonight,” “From This Moment On,” “This I Promise You,” “Thank You For Loving Me,” “Don’t Want to Miss a Thing,” and “All I Ask of You.”
56. The superstition that the bridegroom must not see his bride before the wedding stems from the days when marriages were arranged and the groom might never have seen the bride. There was the chance that if he saw her, he might bolt. Other sources say that to see the bride in her dress is peering into the future, which can bring bad luck.
57. In Tibet, polyandry, or a woman with more than one husband, is not uncommon. For example, a herdsman will share his wife with his brothers and half-brothers.
58. Queen Victoria’s wedding cake was three yards wide and weighed 300 pounds.
59. Queen Elizabeth II had 12 wedding cakes. The one she cut at her wedding was nine feet tall and weighed 500 pounds.
60. In America, T.V. soap opera weddings attract more viewers than a presidential address.
61. Wedding bells are an important symbol of a wedding. Traditionally, it was believed that demons were scared off by loud sounds, so following a wedding ceremony, anything that could make noise was used to create a diversion.
62. In several countries, including Germany and Greece, the bride attempts to cover her new husband’s foot while dancing in order to establish dominance.
63. A double wedding is traditionally considered bad luck because it’s too much happiness for evil demons to overlook.
64. In Bali, a bride holds a cloth in front of the groom, who strikes it through with a dagger, in a display of obvious symbolism.
65. A wedding between two American slaves could not include the words “until death do us part” because plantation masters had the power to part husband and wives. Because slaves were not allowed to have a Christian ceremony, they invented their own ceremonies that often included the bride and groom jumping over a broom, the broom being the symbol of home in certain parts of Africa.
66. During a Javanese wedding celebration, the couple takes three rolled-up betel leaves each and throws them at one another for good luck.
67. The bachelor or stag party supposedly started in fifth-century Sparta where military compatriots would feast and toast one another on the eve of a wedding, like warriors going to battle.
68. “Matrimony” is from the Latin matrimonium, from matrem (“mother”) + monium (“action, state, condition”).
69. Before the 1500s, couples in Europe were free to marry themselves. It wasn’t until 1564 when the Council of Trent declared marriage was a sacrament that weddings became the province of priests and churches.
70. Over 74% of first-time brides receive a diamond engagement ring, with the diamond (first discovered in India over 2,000 years ago) symbolizing pure and eternal love. The Greeks thought diamonds (adamas) were tears of the gods, and the Romans thought diamas or diamonds were splinters from heavenly stars.
71. In the United States, June is the most popular month for weddings, followed by August.
72. Nearly $72 billion is spent on weddings every year in the United States.
73. Before the church declared marriage a sacrament, couples often sought sacred places in nature to wed, such as a hilltop or cliff, where the earth supposedly meets heaven.
74. In England, before literacy rates were high, invitations to weddings were shouted out by “bidders,” who were old men hired to announced the details of the wedding.
75. “Three times a bridesmaid, never a bride” dates to about the sixteenth century. It was believed that if young maiden who had been a bridesmaid three times was unable to catch the eye of unmarried males, then she never would. But, if she served seven times as a bridesmaid, the spell was broken and the woman was thought to be a sure bet for marriage.
76. Because eyebrows are considered intensely alluring in the Orient, historically the bride’s eyebrows were shaved entirely, rendering her powerless to attract a man.
77. The Old English word for the wedding cereomony was bridelope, which literally met “bridal run.” The word “wed” derives from the Proto-IndoEuropean base wadh, meaning to pledge or redeem.

Our Wedding Party

I can't believe I haven't introduced our wedding party. Here they are:

Our Boys!!

Best Man: Marco Iacoviello

Best friend of the groom

Marco and Dave have been friends for 15 years. I was introduced to him and Loretta (Marco's wife) 8 years ago.








Groomsman: Ralph Iannazzo
Brother of the groom

Ralph is Dave's older brother.
















Groomsman: Peter Iannazzo

Brother of the groom

Peter (AKA PJ) is Dave's youngest brother.

Groomsman: Brandan Sferrazza

Nephew of the groom

Brandan is the first born grandchild in the family.








Ring Barer: Massimo Iacoviello
Son of the Best Man

He's just the cutest...

Our Girls!!

Maid of Honour: Deanna Garbutt
Cousin of the bride

Deanna and I have been very close, ever since we were little. Every memory that I have growin up, she has been a part of my life. The sister I never had...even fought like sister.













Bridesmaid: Loretta Iacoviello
Friend of the bride

Loretta and I became friends through her husband, and my husband to be.
As you can see in the picture, she has her hands full with two little ones under the age of 5.













Bridesmaid: Dina Alaimo
Cousin of groom & friend of bride

Was introduced to Dina through Dave, and we have been close ever since.















Bridesmaid: Alicia Ryan

Niece of groom

Tips

**Before hiring your DJ, make sure to browse their music catalogue.

**If you can’t decide on a cake flavour, choose a different one for every tier.

**Make sure you invest in a long lasting lippy for your special day, one that won’t kiss all over your new mister, after all, you want him to be picture perfect!

**Need a little help with planning? Check to see if your venue has an onsite planner—you may be able to get their services included in your package. They can help organize catering, flowers, and transportation.

**For the freshest and prettiest bouquets and centrepieces, choose flowers that are in season in your area.

**Have a manicure on the day before your wedding in a pretty nude shade, a colour that won’t overpower your new bling.

**Don’t forget to book a hair and makeup trial before your day so your and your beauty team can perfect your aisle style.

**The most important gown shopping tip: pick something that flatters your body type! This simple style philosophy is one for your groom to remember too.

**Score a great deal on your wedding gown by shopping the end of season sales—you’ll get a gorgeous dress at a great price!

**Skip tradition and have your wedding photos taken before your ceremony—you’ll look glam, gorgeous and less stressed!

**For a twist, consider food stations instead of the usual sit-down dinner.

**Personalize your party with custom cocktails!

Incorporate Personal Tastes & Ideas

Many young couples choose to follow traditional wedding ceremony protocol. Others are setting new standards by incorporating their personal tastes and simple ideas in the wedding day celebrations.

Whether the ceremony is planned at an elaborate place of worship or in a quaint chapel, you can customize the ceremony with the following ideas:

Pew Markers: They are used to designate rows for special guests. Whether made from flowers, material bows, grapevine wreaths, or cups with tasteful decorations, this is a detonate way to show your personal touch. Some houses of worship restrict decorations, so check with the officiate before making a decorative pew arrangements.

Programs: The program tells guests what to expect, and can explain the meaning behind ceremonial traditions. This is also a great way for you to include a symbol of you and your fiancé’s interests. Include motifs, symbols or images that reflect your interests, tastes or hobbies. You can also include a poem or quote from a favourite writer. A program can also feature a “who’s who” in the wedding party, along with a few lines about their relationship to the bride and groom. Consider rolling the sheets of the program into scrolls and tie the ribbons, lace or raffia.

Music: It’s another classic way to personalize the ceremony and reception. The ceremonial music you choose expresses your personal tastes, while, the guests are waiting for the ceremony to begin, request instrumental music that honours your family’s heritage. Or, if there is a particular musician that you and your fiancé enjoy, include a few of these songs.

Prayer: It’s a lovely idea to include a silent prayer. During the ceremony or before the dinner, you can honour any deceased parents or siblings or special guests who couldn’t attend the wedding.

Unity Candle: The bride and groom, together, may want to light a candle in memory of a specific guest. The joint lighting of a candle can also be performed after being pronounced husband and wife. When featured as ‘unity candle lighting’, it symbolizes two families coming together.

25 Trends

1. Destination Weddings: Some couples are opting to combining their wedding with their honeymoon. People who are truly important to the couple will make the trip.

2. Bling! The ‘Wow’: Factor is still very much a part of the couple’s reception. Jewel tones in linen and crystals in centrepieces and floral are prominent.

3. Entertainment: Special entertainment ensures that your wedding is talked about for years to come. Whether it’s a magician, a belly dancer or a professional singer, it will create a buzz.

4. Two or More Dresses: One for the service, one for the reception. It’s a splurge, but its also a trend.

5. Botox: Everyone will wonder why you look so refreshed on your wedding day! You may look as if you were at a spa for a week.

6. Trash the Dress: When it’s over, it’s over. Some brides are having some fun after the wedding! Jump in the ocean, roll around on hills or dance in the rain!

7. Funky Accessories: Bring your personality to your outfit by having jewellery custom made by a friend or a cool designer. Chunky, bold pieces will make a statement.

8. Add Your Personality: Dye your petticoat a different color or wear funky-coloured shoes. How about a brightly coloured shrug or shawl?

9. Coloured Wedding Dress: Choose a pastel blush or a vibrant hue; coloured wedding dresses are being offered by all your favourite designers.

10. Rock Star Photo Shoots: Get a little edgy and fun during your photo session. Those will be the photos you will enjoy the most.

11. Wedding Cake: Cakes for 2010 are stacked with alternating shapes. Hexagons, circles, and squares are the most popular, adorned with free scroll work.

12. Cup Balls: Move over cupcakes, because cup-balls are the newest rage. Essentially, it is prepared cake, mixed in with butter cream icing, rolled in a ball and covered with glaze. Cup balls offer the perfect cake to icing ratio in every bite.

13. Tapas and Bites: These tiny offerings are big for the cocktail hour and the late night snack.

14. Comfort Food: This is hug this year. A late night buffet with grilled cheese and sweet potato fries is a big hit and is replacing desserts and fruit.

15. Interactive Food Stations: Small plates and casual seating makes for a fun social atmosphere.

16. Grand Entrance: You’ve seen the Youtube videos; grand entrances are all the rate. Whether it’s fireworks, a marching band or riding in on a motorcycle, do something special to showcase your arrival.

17. Hourly Surprises: Keep your guests guessing by introducing a new element every hour. A special performance, changing the room colour through lighting, a poutine stations, a slushy bar or sundae bar will keep them guessing all night long.

18. A Flawless Event: Couples are hiring a certified wedding co-ordinator to help them every step of the way or just for the day to ensure their event goes off without a hitch.

19. Mass Transportation: Take drinking and driving out of the equation and hire a shuttle or school bus to chauffeur your guests to and from your event.

20. Inspiration Boards: Whether you prefer cut and paste or one of the many free websites, create an inspiration board to help you plot and envision your entire wedding.

21. 100 Mile Diet: Use foods that are organic and grown close to home for better tasting food that supports your local farmers.

22. Green Weddings: Follow the 3 R’s. You don’t have to sacrifice style to have an eco-friendly event.

23. Change the Time: Breakfast and luncheons are a memorable and welcome change of pace. They‘re most cost effective too!

24. Location, Location, Location: Choose somewhere fun and unexpected to have your reception. Whether its an amusement park, museum, castle or a boat, choose a place that has a personal meaning for both of you.

25. Make and Exit: Once again, couples are leaving before their guest in a grand exit rather than closing the party.

Vendor Tips

Transportation

**Keep the bridal party together. Instead of renting a vintage car for the bride and groom and a limo for the bridal party, keep everyone in on vehicle. This way you’ll only have to rent one limo instead of two, thereby saving lots of money.
**Go with a large, reputable company as they work on volume and will be able to provide you with a better price.

Photography

**Get only what you need. Decide on what’s most important shots of the ceremony, family portraits or candid photos of you and your new spouse, and make this your focus. Plan out your day and estimate how long you think this will take. If you decide it will take five hours, work with your photographer to come up with a five hour package. If you are only interested in a DVD of the high resolution images, which you are free to print yourself, then hire a photographer who offers this as a stand along service.
**If you have your heart set on hiring a photographer who is out of your budge, ask if they offer a payment plan whereby the money can be paid in instalments.

Wedding Cakes

**Consider serving your wedding cake as the main dessert after dinner. Instead of paying for a dessert from your caterer, opt out and utilize the cake so that every guest can taste the gorgeous creation. When choosing the cake as your main dessert, consider getting a smaller cake (perhaps a smaller three tier one) and substituting the remaining servings with sheet cake, which are kept in the kitchen. Sheet cakes are the same as the main cake, except that they lack the decorations present on the wedding cake. This way all of your guests will be sure to receive a delicious slice of cake.
**Consider the design of the cake that you are choosing. Most wedding cakes are placed in front of the head table facing all the guests. Choose a design that gives you the look you desire from the front with simpler, more economical design elements in the back; no one will even notice!

Flowers

**Think carefully about which flowers make the most impact and where you can compromise. Eliminate the ceremony flowers altogether. If your wedding takes place in a church, synagogue, or beautiful garden, the space really doesn’t need to be adorned. Another suggestion—splurge on your bouquet and scrimp on your maid’s bouquet.
**Go with flowers that are in season. Roses, hydrangeas and orchids (used sparingly year round; tulips and amaryllis from December to April; peonies in June; sunflowers and dahlias midsummer; colourful local hydrangeas and dahlias in the fall. Bad months for local flowers are July and November.

Toast to Love

**Hershey Kisses Pull: Get a bowl full of silver kisses and gold kisses. If someone pulled a gold kiss, the bride and groom kiss. If they pull a silver kiss, they have to kiss another guest.
**Have a trivia game where a question about the bride and groom or the couple was written on a card, and if the guest or guests guessed the right answer, the couple would have to kiss.
**Use a putting green at the front and you have to get a hole-in-one for us to kiss. If you miss, you have to kiss another guest, and its our choice as to whom.

Here Comes the Bridesmaids

There’s something wonderful about being a bridesmaid—and something unsettling. You want to look your very best, but it’s really bad taste to try to outshine the bride!

Downside
You need to be available to help the bride in the months preceding the wedding. And it’s expensive to be an attendant. As well as you may not be comfortable in the gown you are expected to wear. These all must be considered before you say “YES!”

Upside
It’s great to be an insider at a special occasion. And you’ll be a winner if the bride offers to just select the gown color but then allow each of her attendants to choose their own style.

Choosing Your Style

Be ruthless about examine your figure.

*If you have un-toned arms, perhaps a cape sleeve or a dress with a shrug or small cape.

*If you have a thick waist, consider a drop waist.

*If you have great legs, consider a just below the knee dress.

*If you have wide hips, have a dress with a gentle flair that will make the hips less of a factor.

*If you are heavy, avoid all stiff fabrics, such as taffeta or a heavy lace. Choose a soft fabric that will follow the lines of the body or fall in soft folds.

Last Word
You may not be a queen for the day, but you’re entitled to be a princess, so go for it!

Golden Rule
You may not absolutely love your bridesmaid’s dress, but wear it with a smile.

Fashion Cents

How to find your dream dress for less than $1000

It’s tempting to pretend money is no object when it comes to selecting your ultimate wedding gown, but the reality is that spending tens of thousands of dollars on a big name designer creation just isn’t in the cards for most of you—unless you plan on starving your guests. The average amount most is will to spend on a dress is $1028. That being said, there are plenty of ways to find the dress of your dreams on a budget. From bargain hunting to borrowing, here are some tips on finding your perfect fit for less.

Point and Click
Not only is internet shopping convenient, it’s also a great way to access some unbelievable deals. Many brand new gowns are going for a song on the web, often because a bridge to be simply changed her mind. Sites like eBay, Craiglist, and Kijiji abound with ads from bridge looking to sell.

Bargain Hunt
Sample sales are not for the faint heart, but when it comes to finding designer dresses for less, they can’t be beat. Advice? Come prepared. Scope out the store ahead of time, and hit the racks with a clear idea of what you’re looking for. Second hand stores, especially upscale consignment stores, are another great resource. Thrift stores in a upscale part of town can unearth hidden treasures.

Borrow
Want an even cheaper option? Ask co-workers, friends and relatives if they have a wedding dress you can borrow for the big day. Wearing a dress with a little history and whole lot of sentimental value and will add an extra special touch to the days festivities (and it’s budget friendly too!).

Compromise
Factors like the amount of details , the fabric type, and the quality of the fabric determine a gown’s price. Choose which is most important to you and focus on that. If you’ve always dreamed of a lace gown, find one with minimal beading and embroidery and forgo fancy French lace for a more affordable variety.

Customize

One of the major advantages of having a gown made to measure is that you can control the fabric choice and amount of detail from the get go and everything is created from scratch with your budget in mind. Additionally, your custom designer may be able to re-create a high end style that you have always admired, but at a fraction of the cost.

Dress Dos

1. Shop Around: You probably already have a certain style of dress in mind, and that’s great, but you should try to keep an open mind once you’re in the store. Some dresses don’t look very impressive on the hanger, but they’re stunning on the body. For this reason, it’s important to be receptive to your salesperson’s recommendations and try on as many dresses as possible. You may be surprised which dress you fall in love with!

2. Location, Location: Where you’re hosting your big day will definitely help you narrow down your selection of dresses. You’ll want to choose a dress that complements your celebration setting; a voluminous ball-gown for a grand church wedding, for instance, or a flirty cocktail length dress for a quirky brunch party. Also, be mindful of fabric choices. You don’t want to be wearing a heavy satin gown on the beach in Jamaica!

3. Dollars and Sense: Setting a budget from the get go will save a lot of heartbreak. After all, you don’t want to fall in love with a dress that is way out of your price range. Be realistic. Why try on a Vera Wang gown if it’s never going to happen? That being said, if you do have your eye on a designer dress, it’s probably possible to find a similar style in your budgeted price range.

4. Bridal Body: Something else to consider when shopping for your gown is your body shape. Obviously, you want to look your best for the main event, and a dress that flatters your form is of critical importance. The right dress will highlight your favourite parts while concealing trouble spots. Love your arms? Show them off in a strapless number. Not so fond of your tummy? Definitely don’t choose a slinky bias-cut gown.Truly You: Last but no least, select a gown that expresses your personality. Nowadays, almost anything goes in a mini-dress to suits and brightly coloured ensembles, so feel free to experiment. If you favour a traditional dress, but still want pizzazz, try some fun-loving accessories. Items like a bold necklace or ruby shoes will definitely show off your personal style.

Your Reception

1. May we choose our own caterer, florist, DJ and other vendors?
Many sites restrict options to a limited list of suppliers allowed. If you want your reception at one of these sites, you will have to work within their house rules.

2. How many other wedding will likely take place on our day at this site?
If it is a multi wedding location, inquire about quality of sound proofing to avoid the noise from an adjacent wedding reception interrupting your party.

3. Are there options in handling the bar costs?
Can you bring in your own liquor and, if you can, is there a corkage fee? Is there the option of the single price per person regardless of quantity consumed? In a private site, are you responsible for getting your own liquor license?

4. Is there an overtime charge if you want to extend the party?
Be clear about what time the reception is over. If you want to stay another hour, is there a surcharge? How much is it?

5. What are the parking limitations?
Is the parking free? Is there a parking attendant who can help the elderly or handicapped? If so, what tipping is expected?

6. Are there community sound ordinances in the area?
A venue located near a residential area may be required to kill the music at a specific time (often midnight).

7. May we see the chairs, linens, china and crystal available?
You may be able to upgrade—at a cost. Or you may be allowed to rent from an outside supplier. Be very clear about the limitations and what is available.

8. Is the site easily accessible for the elderly or handicapped?
Check the site from the viewpoint of older people. Are there elevators available as well as stairs if it’s not on the ground level?

9. Is the voltage adequate?
If you’re having extra electric lighting or a big band, some sites will require your bringing in a generator.

10. What about early access to the room for suppliers to do their work?
You need time for your florist to put floral or tree decor in place and a time allowances for the band or DJ to set up.

11. Are there enough bathrooms for all our guests?
Ideally, there should be on toilet stall for every 35 guests. Also check their bathrooms for cleanliness.

12. Will there be any disruptive changes before your wedding?
Sometimes sites renovate and have scaffolding in view or tear up their gardens to make changes. Ensure that there will be no disruptions prior to your wedding day.

Think the Guest List is Tough Just Wait Until You Do the Seating Plan

Size of Wedding
The size of the wedding depends on whose picking up the bill. If costs are being shared (say one third paid by each set of parents and one third paid by the bridal couple), call a meeting and have approximate costs on hand.
Those costs break down into meal prices per head at various reception sites, estimates of liquor wine, flowers for both reception and service site, invitations, photographer, cake, limousine, gratuities, clergy costs related to the site of the service (such as a church) and any other items you plan on having.
Finally, add on taxes and tips and then give a copy to each contributor.

Limit Extra People
You may choose to have an adult wedding. You don’t have to invite your friend’s kids, therefore, unless you choose to make it a family event. You don’t have to permit your single friends to bring a date, either (unless they’re in a committed relationship or living together.
Here’s the kicker; you cannot—must not—make any exceptions or you’ll irritate all those who weren’t allowed to bring their dates or their children.

Negotiations Begin
When they pick themselves up off the floor, reality will sink in and it’s time to talk about who’s prepared to pay what.
A word to the wise; It’s better to have a wedding with 50 guests and do it right than have 150 guests and start skimping.
This initial meeting is the time for everyone to say their piece about exactly how, when and how much they will contribute. Armed with this information, the decision is made about how many guests you will have.
After the meeting, someone should be designated to set up a budget, with the payer’s name beside each item.
Send a copy to those who are opening their wallets.

Let’s Suppose
Assume everybody has agreed that there will be 100 guests and also all agreed that it will be an adult wedding (no kids) and that singles come alone (no dates).
Who gets the lion’s share of the invitation?
If the wedding is entirely hosted by the bridal couple, it’s their wedding and they call the shots. The parents are in truth, honoured guests (although they may have couple of very closes friends they hope you will include).
If the hosts are the parents, it is usual for the two families and the bridal couple to each get on third of the invitations. If one set of parents lives out of town and have a few friends able to attend, they will give up their share of their invitations which can then go to those most in need of a few extra.

If the Wedding is Entirely Hosted by the Bridal Couple, It’s Their Wedding and They Call the Shots

Save the Date Cards
It’s helpful to send out save-the-date cards four to six months before the wedding because friends likely will let you know if the date doesn’t work for them. This allows you to add a few relatives or friends who didn’t make the original list.
The information on save-the-date cards should be minimal. (save all the interesting details for the invitations) You can be visually creative, but the wording can be limited.

Example:
Save the Date
April 10, 2010-11-07
Vancouver, British Columbia
Sara Jennifer Jones and Mark Smith
Tough Decisions

It takes discipline and the ability to make hard decisions when paring down the final list. You start, of course, with close family and personal friends. But who gets invited from your office? How about the people you’re friendly with at your gym? What about those second cousin’s you rarely see?
You have to make your own determinations because there are no rules. People you work with may be limited to your own department, or only those you see outside of the office, or just the boss who will represent the office.
Relatives you rarely see may take precedence over friends, depending on your family dynamic—this is where parents sometimes get pushy. It’s never easy.
But just wait until you have to do the seating plane!

Stick to your own rules:
No Kids. No Dates. No Exception.

Guest List Success

1. Divide and Conquer: Divide your list between both sides of the family and mutual friends. Act diplomatically and be prepared to make certain concessions; your list shouldn't be based on how much each family is spending on the wedding.
TIP: With the cost of today's weddings, you can assume that you'll spend about $100 on each guest—a fact you should consider when compiling your guest list and planning your reception.

2. Don't Obsess About Obligation: Don't worry about inviting business associates and family acquaintances because you feel obligated. This is your ceremony, and you deserve to be surrounded by people who mean something to you.
TIP: Set a firm date when you need to receive the guest list from both sets of parent. This deadline will keep them organized and prevent the option of adding stragglers after the list has been completed. Consider limiting the number of guests each set of parents can suggest inviting to stay sane.

3. Set Ground Rules: If your guest list is oversized set restrictions you and your fiancé agree to and discuss them with both sets of parents. Make sure to do this in person so the conclusion is mutual and no one feels left out.

4. Address the Children: Consider whether or not you want childen at your wedding. You may need a playroom, babysitter, and a special children’s menu depending on how many attend.

5. The Plus One Rule: The spouses, fiancés and significant others of those you invite should always to be invited as well. You also need to determine whether or not single guests can bring a date with them.
TIP: If you’re concerned about the size of your guest list, you can always opt for a less expensive reception. Finger foods such as hors d oeuvres and desserts are economical fare, brunch is an excellent way to cut costs—neither will break the bank and both retain an element of simplicity and elegance.

6. Be Consistent with Your Party People: Guests that attend your engagement parties and showers must be invited to the wedding.

7. Consider Your Invitation Options: You can have ceremony only invitations, but consider this option carefully. This could cause hurt feelings among those who were not invited to the reception.Merry Go Rounds: Send out a first round of invitations to the people you absolutely want at your wedding, with an early date to RSVP. If any of those invites are sadly unable to attend, you’ll be able to invite other people who may be on secondary or tertiary lists.

Wedding Countdown

1. Guest Count: Are all your guests accounted for...This is a major must check so you don't have to face the obstacle of adding on extra plate at the last minute at your reception. Do a re-count to see who has RSVP’d and who hasn't.
TIP: To speed up the process ask your bridal party to help you count the guest list.

2. All About You: If you haven't already ensure that all your beauty (hair, make up, spa) essentials are booked solid. The worst thing is showing up for your wedding day appointment only to find out you`ve been double booked. Your wedding day is not the day to experiment with new vendors.

3. Weather Worry: This is the last thing you have to fret about, but a week before the wedding, it'd be a good plan to keep an eye out for the weather. You should have a back up plan set just in case a storm rolls in.

4. Confirm! Confirm! Confirm!: Cannot stress enough. It's best to call and confirm with all your vendors—especially the ones coming on the day of (ie transportation, caterer, photographer, florist, etc...) that they'll be where required at the appropriate time. Most often, vendors will follow up themselves, so if they haven't called a few days prior to your wedding, check in with them.

5. Bridal Emergency Kit: Realistically, there might be a few stumble you encounter along the way on your wedding day. Make sure you have a little 911 kit to go to for your last minute emergencies.

6. Honeymoon Details: If you're jetting off right after your wedding, ensure your luggage is packed and ready to go. The last thing you want to do is stress over what you forgot to pack during your actual wedding. Make a checklist prior to packing and check everything off as you go.

7. Rehearsal Dinner: Make sure your ceremony venue is booked for your dress rehearsal. This is is an important event especially for your bridal party. Stress to them that their attendance is vital as this is the only time you can walk through the wedding day before hand.Important Documents: Check to see that you have all the proper documents ready in order to obtain a proper marriage license. And for those of you changing your last name, see what type of requirements are needed to make changes to your driver's license, bank account, etc...While you're at it, check to see the expiration of your passport—nothing is worse than showing up at the airport only to find out that you can't take off.

365 Days to Go!!

OMG!! 1 year, 12 months, 52 weeks, 365 days...

I am very excited...I have to go through my list of things to do cause I haven't really been following that too much. Hopefully, I'm not too behind on things...

Journalling

June 10, 2010
Picked up card stock.Cut out card stock to make the layered paper for invitations.

August 5, 2010
Printed out verse for invitation.

August 7, 2010
Cut out card stock to make ______invitation.

August 11, 2010
Put together the _______invitation and embossed (73).

August 16, 2010
Put together another 16 invitations
Started to cut out the card box

August 18, 2010
Put together another 16 invitation

August 19, 2010
Put together 35 invitations which completed 140 invitations
Total time on 1st part of invitations=4.6hrs September 8, 2010
Cut out to size of the outside verse for the invitation
Completed 130 with a total of 150 with all

September 14, 2010
Completed the front of invites with 2 _____ adding the _____, and cutting the corners of the _____
Average time for each one to complete the outside of them is 6:11
Completed 19 invites out side of them, at roughly 6 minutes per invite=1.9hrs

September 15, 2010
Completed the front of invites with 2 _____ adding the _____, and cutting the corners of the _____
Completed 13 invites outside
Continued to cut the corners of the verse--58 of them

September 16, 2010
Completed 12 invites outside

September 18, 2010
Had an appointment with a bridal store to try on wedding dresses. Brought Dina with me to also try on dresses. She tried on a couple, and found one she likes.
I tried on 5 dresses, and liked 2 the most.

September 19, 2010
Completed 5 invite outside
Taped the hearts and the verses for invitation
19 verses
49 hearts

September 20, 2010
Gift wrapped the card box for wedding
Did the lids only
With one roll of 2 sided tape, was able to assemble 140 and completed 68 of the outside of the invites
Completed 41 invites outside
Cut out the corners of 20 verses

September 21, 2010
Completed the card box for the wedding
Cut the corners of the verses--40
Taped the back of the verses and the hearts

September 22, 2010
Completed 34 invites outside
Ran out of hearts
Taped the back of the verses to finish off the the rest of the invites

September 23, 2010
Cut out hearts for the invitations
Completed 7 invites outside

September 25, 2010
Completed hanker chiefs--border
Completed 9 invites outside
Finished all 140 invite outside

September 28, 2010
Worked on girls hanker chiefs during the end of my lunch break
Re-worked on the card box for the wedding shower--re wrapped it; it`s missing something though...
Worked on hanker chiefs

October 1, 2010
Worked on hankerchiefs
Took a part the others as they were not done nicely, or the same

October 2, 2o10
Worked on handkerchiefs
Completed one, and started another one

October 3, 2010
Worked on hanker chiefs

October 4, 2010
Worked on hanker chiefs
Designed template for the Stag n`Doe tickets

October 5, 2010
Gathered the quotes for the parents hanker chiefs
Worked on handkerchiefs

October 6, 2010
Worked on handkerchiefs during lunch
Hoping to start embroidery tonight

October 7, 2010
Worked on handkerchiefs

October 8, 2010
Worked on handkerchiefs

October 9, 2010
Worked on handkerchiefs

October 10, 2010
Worked on handkerchiefs

October 11, 2010
Worked on handkerchiefs and completed one
Went to look at hall for the stag n doe

October 12, 2010
Started another handkerchiefs
Went to Michael's to price out card stock for stag n doe
Purchased more thread for hanker chiefs

October 13, 2010
Worked on hanker chiefs
Called hall to reserve hall for stag n doe

October 14, 2010
Worked on hanker chiefs (on my lunch)
Worked on hanker chiefs (before bed)
October 15, 2010
Worked on hanker chief (on my lunch)
Worked on hanker chief--completed one
Started another hanker chief and continued to work on it
October 16, 2010
Worked on hanker chief
October 17, 2010
Worked on hanker chief
Completed one
Started another, almost finished the last one, just to do 2 more sides :)
October 18, 2010
Finished the final hanker chief
Washed and ironed the hanker chief
Started to do the groomsmen boutonniere...need some greenery
Prepared the hanker chiefs for embroidery by tracing the initials onto hanker chiefs
October 19, 2010
Attempted to embroider Dave's hanker chief, but I can't get the hang of it
October 22, 2010
Gave deposit for hall for stag n' doe
Started to print stag n' doe tickets, made a boo boo on a few of them out of the 50 that I printed. Lets see if anyone notices...
October 23, 2010
Completed printing stag n' doe tickets--601 in total
October 24, 2010
Started slide show
October 25, 2010
Worked on slide show
November 15, 2010
Went to bridal store with the moms and maid of honour to try dresses on.
I tried on the original dress that I like back in September to see what the mom's though of it.
I continued to try on 2 other dresses to make sure that I was absolutely sure about the dress. Then found another one that I loved and felt a lot better, and comfortable in.
I decided to sleep on it.

November 16, 2010
I SAID YES TO THE DRESS!!
Went back to the bridal shop to try the dress on again and to get measured for the dress.
Here's the funny thing; when we went into the second bridal store, the choice of my dress was not in the computer. I explained the dress style to the sales rep, and as we walked through the isles, the sales rep was ahead of me when Deanna noticed it on the manicane, and the sales rep had the same dress in her hand.
It must be fate!
Got measured and purchased the dress and it'll be ready in 15 weeks.
The greatest part is that I want the corset back on the dress, and it can be made.
Deanna also chose her dress and got measured up for the purchase.
Her dress will take 6-8 weeks

November 17, 2010
Perforated the stag n' doe tickets using a sewing machine.
November 18, 2010
Perforated the stag n' doe tickets using a sewing machine.
November 19, 2010
Trimmed the stag n' doe tickets.
November 20, 2010
Trimmed the stag n' doe tickets.
November 21, 2010
Went over guest list for wedding and gathered missing information with FMIL.
Trimmed the stag n' doe tickets.
November 22, 2010
Updated guest list on spread sheet and in the wedding book.
Trimmed stag n' doe tickets.
November 23, 2010
Trimmed stag n' doe tickets.
November 24, 2010
Trimmed the stag n' doe tickets.
November 24, 2010
Updated info in the wedding planner.
November 27, 2010
Finished trimming the stag n' doe tickets and stacked them into bundles of 10.
Received email notification to advise that Deanna's dress is in and ready for pick up.
December 1, 2010
Printed addresses on bridal shower invitations (23).
December 2, 2010
Printed addresses on bridal shower invitations (46).
December 9, 2010
Printed addresses on bridal shower invitations (5).
December 10, 2010
Worked on slide show; adding the third song and worked on the timing of the slides with the music.
December 11, 2010
Went and picked up Deanna's dress.
Had Loretta (bridesmaid) try on a few dresses, and she found one, ordered.
Two down, two to go!
Purchased cake topper.
December 21, 2010
Received email notification that Loretta's dress is ready for pick...that was fast!!
2 down, 2.5 to go!!
January 8, 2011
Picked up Loretta's bridesmaid dress.
Dina ordered dress.
Alicia tried on dresses and purchased one.
Found envelopes to send wedding invitations; they're a little on the larger side, but they'll do the job and they were only $0.99 for 25.
January 11, 2011
Called to book consultation with florist.
Meeting January 22, 2011 @ 10:30am.
Tried to make a hair appointment for the day of the wedding, but it's too soon!
January 12, 2011
Made arrangements for a consultation with the limousine company.
Meeting January 22, 2011--during open house.
January 13, 2011
Made signs for Stag n' Doe.
Raffle Prizes
Door Prizes
Weekend Warrior
January 16, 2011
Created lists for Stag n' Doe for the games, food and prizes.
Brainstormed ideas for signs to put up for the Stag n' Doe.
Went through guest list with my mom for wedding and bridal shower.
Added addresses and guests of family members to the wedding list.
January 17, 2011
Updated Wedding Planner with guest list; entering and updating addresses.
Trimmed ribbon on shower invitations.
Sealed envelopes for bridal shower; completed 55 invitations.
January 18, 2011
Received email notification that Alicia's dress is in and ready for pick up.
But, haven't heard about Dina's dress, so I called the store and they told me that it should be in later this week, beginning of next week.
Trimmed ribbon on shower invitations.
Sealed envelopes for bridal shower; completed 25 invitations.
Printed 2 more addresses for mailing.
January 19, 2011
Made signs for the Stag n' Doe.
January 20, 2011
Finished sign for Stag n' Doe for the prices for the tickets.
Printed invitations for wedding to start assembling them.
Applied invitation under lay to 37.
January 21, 2011
Applied invitation under lay to 67.
January 22, 2011
Met with florist to get quote.
January 23, 2011
Made up sausages for Stag n' Doe.
Made a total of 131 sausages.
January 24, 2011
Updated Wedding Planner w/addresses for family out east, completing my side of the family for the guest list.
Finished Stag n' Doe sign for "Ticket Prices" and started to cut out the letters for the "Package Prices".
Applied invitation under lay to 5.
Added invitation w/under lay into invitation to 43.
January 25, 2011
Updated Wedding Planner.
Cut out letters for "Package Prices" for sign.
Put together the sign for "Package Prices".
January 27, 2011
Finished "Package Prices" sign for Stag n' Doe.
January 28, 2011
Finished "50/50 Draw" sign.
Added invitation w/under lay into invitation to 42 + 41.
Printed the accommodation inserts for invitation.
Printed the rest of the invitation inserts to complete for the assembly.
January 29, 2011
Completed the invitations w/under lay to 15.
Inserted to accommodation card into invitation.
Categorized invitation list to prepare for printing of the RSVP inserts.
January 30, 2011
Printed address onto envelopes to prepare for mailing wedding invitations--65.
February 1, 2011
Printed addresses onto envelopes to prepare for mailing wedding invitations--21.
February 2, 2011
Printed address onto envelopes to prepare for mailing wedding invitations--31.
Printed addresses for 2 more invitations for bridal shower.
Trimmed ribbon on invitation to put in envelope before sealing.
February 4, 2011
Sorted prizes that we have collected for the stag n' doe and for the bridal shower.
Listed items that we require for the prizes.
February 5, 2011
Put deposit down to reserve florist.
Organized and gathered the prizes into basket.
February 6, 2011
Packed what prizes we have put together and bagged them to store.
Created list of prizes and their contence for inventory list.
Also created a list of things required to complete the prizes.
Marked prizes of what is required to complete or if it is completed.
February 8, 2011
Completed uploading pictures for slideshow.
February 9, 2011
Dropped of hanker chiefs to get embroidered.
February 11, 2011
Picked up the last of the 2 bridesmaid dresses.
Ordered head pieces for the bridesmaids.
Attended part I of marriage classes.
February 12, 2011
Attended part II of marriage classes.
Spoke with facility to discuss getting pictures done indoors.
February 15, 2011
Received email notification to tell me that my wedding dress is ready!
Completed reception card insert for wedding invitation.
Printed reception insert to complete the reception cards.
Printed addresses on RSVP envelopes.
February 16, 2011
Printed accommodation information for the night of the wedding to be inserted in invitations.
Printed addresses on RSVP envelope for the guests--our return address.
Printed addresses on RSVP envelope for the guests--Teresa & Luigi's address.
February 17, 2011
Finished printing accommodation information for the night of the wedding.
Trimmed the accommodation to fit.
Rounded corners on the inserts for Reception, RSVP, Accommodation cards.
Completed 49 assembly of 49 invitation--minus the stamp for the RSVP envelope.
February 18, 2011
Picked up hanker chiefs now that they are embroidered.
February 19, 2011
Went to jewellery store to look at wedding rings.
Spoke w/DJ on schedule for night of the wedding as well as music selections.
February 20, 2011
Trimmed inserts for wedding invitations.
Included the directions/instructions for the hotel.
February 21, 2011
PICKED UP WEDDING DRESS!!
February 22, 2011
Completed printing addresses on RSVP envelopes for both our address and Teresa & Luigi's address.
Completed wedding invitations.
February 24, 2011
Added some trim to the money box for wedding shower--almost completed, the third tier needs the trim added to it, as well as we need to find a topper for it.
Completed boutonniere’s for the groomsmen and for the fathers--need to complete it for the ring bearer.
Put together bouquet for the flower girl--need to add ribbon on the stem of the bouquet.
February 25, 2011
Finished the top layer of the card box, by adding the trim.
Added diamond bead to each layer in the centre of the trim.
February 28, 2011
Received "special" garter that I ordered on line, and I love it.
Decided to keep it a secret from Dave and surprise him the day of the wedding.
March 11, 2011
Teresa made hair appointment for the day of the wedding.
March 15, 2011
Started to prepare the shower invitations for mailing.
Dave hand delivered a few wedding shower invitations to the girls at his work.
Picked up jars for the centrepieces for the wedding.
Printed application for marriage license.
Went through guest list and updated--need more stamps for shower invitations.
March 19, 2011
Took Teresa dress shopping.
She tried on a few dresses but Dave and I preferred the first one she tried on. Also, if the mother of the groom and the bride buy their dress from there, they get discounts :)
Went over the shower guest list with Teresa before we mailed them out, and we were missing some information (last names, correct spelling, etc...)
March 20, 2011
Purchased centrepiece vases for wedding shower.
Went to look at limo buses at Dynasty--have to think about it.
Went through shower list again and added a couple of guests to the shower list, and the wedding list as well.
March 22, 2011
Have a meeting with priest, as requested once marriage classes completed.
Had to do a compatibility test, and we are to meet with him in another month to discuss.
March 28, 2011
Purchased stamps for the first back of invites, also for the RSVP envelopes.
Wedding shower invites have been mailed.
March 29, 2011
Booked limo bus and put deposit.
April 1, 2011
Sent out first batch of wedding invitations.
April 10, 2011
Went through stag n' doe menu with Teresa.
Also updated prize list as we had a couple of donations added to the list.
April 11, 2011
Received call from Teresa to say that we are to take a guest off the list, as they won't be able to make it.
Started cutting out tags for wishing tree.
Started to get some ideas for hair styles.
April 12, 2011
Finished cutting tags for wishing tree, using extra card stock from invitations.
Started making hanging things for girls with their names for their gifts.
April 14, 2011
Met Teresa at Michaelango's to go over menu for the wedding shower.
Also went over details for the decor and table set up.
April 15, 2011
Put together baskets for wedding shower and stag n' doe.
April 16, 2011
Went dress shopping with Teresa and mom for the wedding and for a dress for me for the wedding shower.
Dress bought!
Put together more baskets for the stag n' doe and wedding shower.
Organized baskets completed for the wedding shower, and stag n' doe. Also for the stag n' doe prizes labelled them as "door prizes" and "raffle prizes".
Total of 27 baskets/gifts put together to date.
April 19, 2011
Found some hotel information for out of town guests for the night of the stag n' doe.
Filled out some information found from Wedding SOS for "Things to Do" list.
April 20, 2011
Received our first RSVP reply in the mail; unfortunately, it was a "will not be attending".
April 23, 2011
Order rocks to put in the centre pieces; ordered from eBay, first time...
April 26, 2011
Started to put label and ribbon on tissue packs for ceremony.
"To dry your tears of joy"
April 27, 2011
Did more tissue packs
Wrote out first draft of speech for the wedding shower
April 29, 2011
Printed invitations to sent to celebrity...just for fun
May 2, 2011
Called David's Bridal to talk to someone in alterations to make changes to the back--into a corset from a zipper; made an appointment for tomorrow
May 3, 2011
Went to appointment at David's Bridal and because of the cost of material alone, I decided to get the alterations done at the store
Mailed celebrity invites
May 10, 2011
Started filling flower mesh with confetti candy for the shower bombineires
Completed one roll; not yet counted them
May 11, 2011
Started to tie the completed flowers to have them fully assembled
May 12, 2011
Finished tying the flower with confetti together to add to the wedding shower favour
Completed 68
May 15, 2011
Put the flower confetti onto the wedding shower favours
Printed tags to put on the shower favours
Completed 25 of them
May 16, 2011
Put flower confetti onto the wedding shower favours
Need more confetti candy
May 17, 2011
Completed putting together wedding shower favours
May 20, 2011
Went dress shopping with my mom
She tried on about 3 dresses, but no luck :(
May 21, 2011
Attempt number 2 for dress shopping with my mom and...SUCCESS!! It is a beautiful dress
Wrapped prizes for stag n doe (6)
May 22, 2011
Helped Teresa make cookies for the wedding shower
May 23, 2011
Helped make cookies for the wedding shower
May 27, 2011
Went to see Bridesmaids with one of my bridesmaids (Dina)
May 29, 2011
Helped Teresa make cookies for the wedding shower
Delivered 2 invitations
June 2, 2011
Completed seating plan for the wedding shower
Took Teresa to Michaels to pick up flowers for decorations of the cookie trays
June 6, 2011
Created/printed spreadsheet for keeping track of the gifts received from the bridal shower; as I have already received 3 cards and my shower is 6 days away
Printed the list for the seating arrangement by alphabetical order with the table number and attendance column
June 7, 2011
Worked out wedding shower speech
Gathered items into a tote for the wedding shower to take to Teresa's house
June 8, 2011
Finalized speech for wedding shower
Updated list for wedding shower gifts
June 9, 2011
Went over itinerary with Teresa and Dina for the wedding shower
Delegated jobs for the girls to do the day of the wedding shower
June 11, 2011
Prepared cookie trays for shower
Went over any last minute details with the moms
June 12, 2011
Today is my BRIDAL SHOWER
It went great!! Lots of laughs, and tons of tears
There were a lot of people, and it was a very overwhelming experience, and I am so grateful that everyone who could be there, was there with me
Sold first stag n' doe ticket




June 13, 2011
Engagement Shoot!!
Went to Paletta Park with Daniela Foster (http://www.danielafosterphotography.ca/) for our engagement shoot, and it went great. I can't wait to see the pictures!!
We should get them in about a month
Started to write out the thank you cards from the bridal shower
Went to look at suit options at Moores and at Stars
June 14, 2011
Went to get dress from alterations; but it wasn't ready as the bustle wasn't done right
Continued to work on thank you cards
Sent out event invite on Facebook for stag n' doe
June 15, 2011
Finished thank you cards
Started to make scrapbook pages using the cards received from the shower
Received a reply letter from invitation sent to Kate & William
June 16, 2011
Mailed out some thank you cards; hopefully they received them because there is a postal strike :(
June 17, 2011
Dave went to purchase suites; got measured as well as best man
Received email from photographer with a sneak peek from the engagement shoot--LOVE THEM!!
Booked flight for bachelorette party weekend!! NYC baby!!
June 19, 2011
Hand delivered a couple of wedding invitations
Hand delivered a couple of thank you cards from bridal shower
June 20, 2011
Dave took groomsman (PJ) to get measured up for suit
June 24, 2011
Dave took groomsmen (Ralph & Brandon) to get measured up for suits
June 27, 2011
Bought a couple of bottles for serving at stag n' doe
Bought a couple of bottles of bottles for wheel barrel of booze
Bought a couple of hats for the little boys--just gotta figure out who it fits...
Bought Texas Mickey for stag n' doe
July 1, 2011
Hand delivered a couple of invitation to Dave's aunt & uncle
Teresa sold 6 stag n' doe tickets
July 2, 2011
Talked to Heather about our kissing game, and some other top secret stuff to go with it ***wink wink***
July 3, 2011
Finished putting the cards from shower onto pages for scrapbook
July 7, 2011
Dropped off a hand full of wedding invitations to a friend of ours to drop off to people Dave use to work with
Sent email inquiry to a casting call for a wedding show Four Weddings
July 8, 2011
Received application form for Four Weddings
Filled out--7 pages and sent back to apply for the show
Wedding invitations are officially in the mail!!
Sent out the rest of the thank you notes from the bridal shower
Received 2 more RSVP's
July 10, 2011
Updated stag n' doe notes to keep track of who has tickets to sell and how many they have
July 12, 2011
Had phone interview with someone from the casting of Four Weddings; made arrangements for camera interview for Friday July 15th @ 4:00pm
July 15, 2011
Worked on scrap book from bridal shower
Wrote some questions down for camera interview for Four Weddings
Went for camera interview for Four Weddings. The tape will be sent next Friday and then we'll know something in 3 weeks
Bought supplies to make girls bracelets
Scrapbooked from bridal shower
July 17, 2011
Worked on the scrapbook from the bridal shower...man there’s a lot of pictures which is making it a lot of pages
Sent email to Dana at Michaelangelo's regarding a follow up that I sent to Brenda for the Four Weddings and for some other requirements needed for the wedding
Sent email to Daniela as our engagement pictures are almost ready for pick up!!
Dave hand delivered some invitations and sold some stag n' doe tickets
July 18, 2011
Received 2 more RSVPs today!
Finished bridal shower scrapbook
July 19, 2011
Confirmed with Daniela that engagement pictures are ready to be picked up on Friday!
Went to Moores to check to see if suits were in, and they weren't in. Not only that, Dave's suit didn't fit him...UGH...NOT IMPRESSED!!
Received 2 more RSVPs--our 'YES' stack is getting bigger than our 'NO' stack :
July 20, 2011
Met with Father George to go over our compatibility test
Also, discussed the other details of the wedding ceremony (decorations, music, cost and rules of the church for the photographers)
July 26, 2011
Mailed out wedding invitations and thank you card to Dave's aunt.
July 27, 2011
Went through some inventory for items for the bar for the Stag n' Doe.
Went through our Stag n' Doe book and sorted out who has tickets to sell, and how many they have.
Went to bridal store for my mom to find out when her dress will be in; August 29th is the big day!
July 28, 2011
Received a couple more RSVP's today, which is always exciting in my books!!
July 29, 2011
Received a RSVP today!
99 days until our wedding!! We are in double digits--WOO HOO!!
July 31, 2011
Went to FMIL's house and there were 3 RSVP's there.
August 1, 2011
Gave 20 Stag n' Doe tickets to my cousins to sell up in Petewawa.
Started to work on the wheel barrel for Stag n`Doe. Needed to grind it to clean up from the cement. Put first coat of paint on the outside.
August 2, 2011
Continued to work on wheel barrel, and put first coat on the inside, the tire rim and other parts on it.
Started another DIY project, the guest book/tree. Cut the tree limb, after finding the ¢right¢ one!
August 3, 2011
Receiver another RSVP today. now, we are at... YES 27 NO 4
August 4, 2011
Received another RSVP.
Won my bid on eBay for my veil...paid a whopping $1.04 baby!!
August 5, 2011
Mom came down to help make some baskets for the Stag n’ Doe.
Still a few more things we need to finish some of them, but we were able to get a few of them done.
August 6, 2011
Made payment for my veil.
Went shopping with mom to get some items for the prize baskets.
We have 25 door prizes and raffle prizes.
August 8, 2011
Received a lot of RSVP’s today for my FMIL’s house.
Also received one in our own mail box J
Total RSVP received to date...YES 43 NO 4
August 9, 2011
Hand delivered a wedding invitation to my cousin (it got sent back through the mail) and she then returned it back to me saying YES!
Mailed 2 more invitations; and that’ll be the end of it.
August 12, 2011
Picked up a large gummy bear as an accessory for the wedding.
August 15, 2011
Received 2 more RSVP`s.
August 16, 2011
Went to buy our wedding bands.
Mine will be ready next week.
Dave`s will be ready in 3 weeks.
August 17, 2011
Received 2 more RSVP`S today
1 YES
1 NO
August 19, 2011
Decided on another invite to the list; printed up to deliver.
August 20, 2011
Dave hand delivered an invitation to our final guest.
Went through some different ideas for this kissing game and made note of them.
August 22, 2011
Received a call from the jeweller to tell us that Dave`s ring is ready!
Went shopping to look for hats for the little guys—no luck.
Purchased some mix for the Stag n¢ Doe.
Went through guest list and updated spreadsheet by the RSVP`s received to date.
August 23, 2011
Went to go and look at hats for the little guys for the wedding—got some ideas of prices and locations, so we know where to go.
Dave got a call from Moores to tell us that all the guys suits were in except for one shirt.
August 29, 2011
Went to pick up our wedding bands from the jewellers, and I LOVE THEM!! Can’t wait to wear them!!
Received 5 RSVP’s 1 NO 4 YES.
Updated guest list from the RSVP’s received today.
Updated spreadsheet for the wedding budget.
August 30, 2011
Dyed my crinoline—fuchsia pink; and it looks AMAZING!! I am very happy with the way it turned out.
August 31, 2011
Made my bridesmaids bracelets.
Thinking on making the necklaces to match.
September 1, 2011
Received RSVP’s in the mail (2)
Big news!! Got my veil in the mail, and again I love it. Tried it on and pranced around the house with it on...gorgeous!!
September 3, 2011
Sold 3 Stag n’ Doe tickets.
September 5, 2011
Went through the raffle/door prizes for the Stag n’ Doe and listed them in the book for inventory.
September 6, 2011
Bought the tickets for raffle and liquor to sell.
Also priced out other items required (mayo, cups, plates, napkins, cutlery, etc...)
Made lists of the food/dinner menu we require for the menu.
Updated spreadsheet with gift information.
Pre-packaged 50 raffle, grand prize and drink tickets for purchase.
September 7, 2011
Received RSVP
September 8, 2011
Received RSVP
September 9, 2011
Went shoe shopping with Teresa—SUCCESS!!
Bought some last minute items to complete for Stag n` Doe prizes.
Received 5 RSVP`s in the mail today.
To date, the RSVP list is NO 8 YES 64.
September 10, 2011
Completed wrapping of the prizes for the Stag n`Doe—with the help of my lovely mom of course J.
Went shopping for shoes with my mom—no luck L.
Bought some items for a DIY project for a gift for my girls.
Added another picture to slide show, and ran through it—it`s almost done.
September 12, 2011
Purchased some supplies for the Stag n`Doe.
Collected some money from the ticket sales for a couple of sellers.
Received an RSVP from Teresa`s house.
September 13, 2011
Did a big shopping trip to pick up some supplies for the Stag n`Doe.
Did up a deck of cards on a Bristol board for one of the games—find the joker.
Received an RSVP in the mail.
Updated the spreadsheet for the guest list and for the budge of the Stag n`Doe.
Picked up some more supplies for a DIY project for my girls.
Spoke with the church to make arrangements to pick up the prayers for the readers.
September 14, 2011
Attempted another DIY project for the girls, but it didn’t work out so well.
September 15, 2011
Went for our first dance lesson. I think it went well—Part II next week!!
September 16, 2011
Picked up liquor license for Stag n’ Doe.
Went to church and picked up book for our readings; now to choose them!
Received 3 more RSVP’s
Received 3 prizes donated for the Stag n’ Doe.
At this point in the planning, my mind is going a mile a minute, with everything that needs to be done.
Updated wedding guest list.
September 19, 2011
Finished last bracelet for the girls.
Attempted a matching necklace, but not sure if that’ll be the right style, so I may change it.
September 20, 2011
Picked up some more fabric dye cause we are gonna dye some gitches.
Picked up a white rose cause I’m gonna attempt to make a hair piece for me.
Paid the balance of the hall for the Stag n’ Doe.
Drafted up a rough list for the grocery list.
September 21, 2011
Received 3 more RSVP`s today.
Finished 2 necklaces for the girls. I took apart the first attempt, and finalized it.
Did more grocery shopping for snacks for the Stag n`Doe.
Updated wedding guest list, and Stag n`Doe budget sheet.
September 22, 2011
Took a load down to Teresa`s house. 15 cases of beer, 12 cases of water and 70 bottles of pop.
Made a trip to the beer store to pick up the rest of the beer required for Stag n`Doe.
Mom & Deanna came down and mom wrapped 5 more prices.
September 23, 2011
Went to grocery store and made big shopping trip for all the food required for Stag n`Doe.
Made list of items as we picked them up as we were missing some things and we added things as we went along.
Finished making signs for the Stag n`Doe.
Put together Bristol board of lotto tickets for a game.
Packed up and listed all supplies required and staged it for loading in the morning.
We have our basement back and a part of our dining room!!
Created schedule for DJ Danny to follow throughout the night.
September 24, 2011
STAG N' DOE!! 5 :00am wake up call!!
We loaded up Dave's truck and mom's buggy of everything we needed. It was a tight fit as we stacked and packed everything to the hall and started to unpack—holy, there's a lot of stuff to get prepared.
Dave made a bunch of trips back and forth from the hall to the bakery, to Teresa's and back to the hall, poor guy.
Teresa, PJ, Marco & Ralph were in the kitchen doing all the cooking and food prep.
Mom, myself, Deanna and Dina were setting up the hall with the prizes.
Set up the bar, put the beer in the coolers, and the fridge.
Table set up, prize set up, DJ set up.
6:00pm—guests started to show up. We then had a packed house by 8:30pm.
Everyone had a good time as the bar was happening, the dance floor packed and the turnout was great at 250 roughly.
People didn't leave until 1:30am—a lot of people did leave after we announced all the winners of the prizes, but the majority of them did stay for the dancing.
After clean up, we went home and covered the truck up as it had all the booze and the empties.
Sorted the money for Dave to count it up.
September 25, 2011
Returned the empties.
Returned the booze that could be returned.
Sorted through all the supplies that were brought back to the house and re-packed it.
Updated Stag n' Doe budget sheet, and we did really well to throw that kick ass party.
September 26, 2011
Caught up on some sleep.
Updated guest list spreadsheet as we received a few RSVP.
September 27, 2011
Went to Hamilton City Hall and applied for wedding license another check on our list.
Picked readings for our readers for the wedding.
Finished another necklace for one of my girls—one more to go.
September 28, 2011
Made appointment for hair trial for October 7th, 2011 with Heather at 12:30pm.
Called embroidery company to make arrangements to have a couple more handkerchiefs embroidered.
Received an RSVP today—only 2 more days until they are due.
September 30, 2011
Went bra shopping, found one, but I would like to shop around a little bit to compare prices.
October 1, 2011
Today is the RSVP's are due, which means that the wedding is just a little over a month away.
Posted updated on Facebook to remind our friends and family that the RSVP's are due, in a subtle way.
Went suit shopping with our ring bearer—man he looked so cute. Couldn't find a shirt though in his size.
October 2, 2011
Went through our RSVP's to make sure that the ones received are matched up with the guest list spread sheet.
Sorted out how many RSVP’S received so far—and to date we are at...YES 84 NO 14.
October 3, 2011
Went to look for a bra for my wedding dress. No luck yet, but I'm not overly worried, YET.
Dropped off last 2 handkerchiefs to get embroidered.
Went to church today to speak with Father George's secretary about the ceremony, rehearsal, readings, prayers, etc...
Received 7 more RSVP's—WOO HOO!!
Went to scrapbooking store to pick up cardstock for the guest cards. Just picked up one sheet to run a trial copy.
Ordered wraps for my girls; they are pink for breast cancer awareness with all proceeds going towards breast cancer.
Made arrangements to have additional guests to come to the wedding, from work.

Dress Shopping

I have officially started. On Saturday that just past, we went down to the states and I tried on a couple of dresses...actually, 5 of them. I really like 2. I took pictures, but not ready to post them yet. I went with one of my bridesmaids and she said yes to her dress. She found a beautiful dress that compliments her well. Which them got me thinking about the rest of the girls...I need to take them out shopping, so they can start shopping.

Pictures to eventually follow...

To be continued...

Engagement Pictures

When and where to take them. Mostly where to take them. I was thinking because I'm from Toronto and we're getting married in Hamilton, that we should do the the engagement pictures in Toronto. I was thinking in the distillery area but then I also like the idea of the beach, or near water. Not sure what to do...

Officially Started...

the invitations. I started last night as I am embelishing them which is a pretty long process...thankfully we have a lot of time before we need to get them done.

I will be taking pictures, but because I'm not wanting to show them until after I send them out, I won't be posting them at this time.

Tah!

Invitation Time!!

Today I had an appointment at the scrapbook store to cut out the wedding invitation. I didn't realize how time consuming it was...thankfully FMIL was there to help me out. We were able to cut them out from the 12x12" sheet into the the style of invitation that we have chosen. We had 150 invites to do, and I had a 2 hour time slot and we managed to do it in 55 minutes. It was such a releif to get it done cause now I'll be able to assemble the rest at my on leisure.

What else is going on? Hmm...I've been getting quotes for the hotels for our out of town guests. Also quotes for transportation. I have purchased some artifical flowers to assemble my bouquet, also for our boutineires for the groomsmen.

We also went to this stag n doe yesterday and the hall that it was at was a perfect location to book ours :). We will be looking into that within the week cause I need to get that booked!!

477 Days...

Am I crazy or what? Of course I am. I feel a little panicked as I feel that there is not that much time left and still so much to do. Why do I feel this way? I'm trying to do as much as I can now, because I definately do not want to wait for the last minute to do anything, if I can help it.

That's all for now...

Photographer--Check

After much research, email correspondence, and meetings, we have booked our photographer. I can't believe how many photographers are out there. I wanted to be absolutely sure that it was a good fit for what we wanted and what they had to offer. Also that we felt comfortable with them as well. They are responsible for capturing one of the most important days of your life.

Here's her website, so be sure to check it out. www.danielafosterphotography.ca

Wedding Invitations

Hello there...

Invitations...it's all about the invitations. We finally decided on the style of invitations that we are going with, and I couldn't be more excited. I will be making them by hand, and I'm so anxious to get them started :). I have cut them all out to size except for the outer part of it. I don't want to post any pictures of the finish product cause I want all of our guests to be surprised when they see them in the mail, so I have taken some pictures of all of the material of the invitations then once they receive it, they can see the finished product!

This is what we started with--a 12x12" card stock

Then we made some of these...

Some of these...

Some of these...

Some of--well, you get the picture

All lined up and ready to be worked on and put together!